Friday, February 17, 2012

Friday night:  Another week has gone by.  Mom continues to stabilize, but it is very slow going.  She is more aware than she used to be and more conversational.  She's really trying hard by making herself eat when she can, and to do physical therapy.  She is working hard on trying to get out of bed by herself and be able to walk with a walker independently.  She is not there yet.  She still needs a great deal of assistance with everything.  Some days she's very alert but other days she's in a fog.  Her stomach gives her trouble - she gets constipated frequently and when that happens she feels very poorly and can't eat or do physical therapy.  And, when she does physical therapy, she seems very tired afterwards.  We've got another 1-1/2 weeks left at Stonebridge and it looks like we will be needing to place her in another skilled nursing facility.  So far we are looking at Regency Village or Barton Hills - both places have a room.  The hours that it takes to visit and care for her and her household bills/mail, home upkeep and keeping Danny fed are wearing on everyone.  I know I have been very stressed out with that and with working too.  David continues to put more hours in than everyone else, and it's really wearing on him.  Maybe one day we will all be able to settle into a routine that is comfortable for everyone - but until then...it's just grin and bear it.

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  1. I can't figure out how to make my own posts yet, so I'm riding along on comments on whomever posts the latest.

    Roberto's services are this coming Wednesday at 3:00 at the Ft. Sam Houston cemetery. Mid-week like that, the best we could do was fly out of Chicago Sunday and get the 7:00 p.m. flight back Wednesday. So we got in yesterday afternoon, and we're staying at Roberto & Josie's house. Today we're going to visit with Ernesto, who's still pretty debilitated from the lung cancer treatments.

    Josie's got her own little SUV, and so she offered me the use of Roberto's truck. The tentative plan is for me to borrow it tomorrow and drive up to Austin for the day, trying to get back Tuesday evening; Diana'll stay and make connections with the extended family who'll be coming to the funeral, like her oldest brother, Conrado, and his family coming up from McAllen. They'll probably get in some time tomorrow and stay in a hotel. We haven't seen them in probably fifteen years or more.

    After I post this, I'll send a text to Michele, and if the plan materializes, I'll call with my departure time and find out where I should go first.

    Love,
    Rick

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